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My New Year’s Resolution for 2024 was to read fewer books, and to read them in the spirit of true leisure, rather than with a despairing eye on my to-read list which somehow only seemed to grow longer the more books that I finished.

I am happy to say that I achieved success! Not only did I read fewer books this year, but I have high hopes that the numbers will be lower still next year, in part because I haven’t signed up for any more Dracula Daily inspired “read the Sherlock Holmes/Raffles/Jeeves & Wooster short stories!” substacks. The email format worked great for me when I was working at the library, where I had plenty of time to read at the desk, but this year I was constantly falling behind.

Given that I exchanged a part-time job where I had hours to read at the desk for a full-time job where I rarely have time to read at all, you might expect a large difference between the number of books in 2023 and 2024, but in fact the change has been relatively modest, largely because when I moved into my own place I decided not to get internet.

I love it! Now that I’m not spending hours each day spinning my wheels on various websites (over the years, my poisons of choice have included Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, Tumblr…), I have so much time! I’m enjoying my reading more, I’ve picked up new hobbies (dulcimer, D&D), and when I sit down to write, I actually write, instead of “writing” for three hours but half an hour in I decide to look up some detail, and then since I’m online anyway might as well check my email, and look at these new DW comments I need to answer, and why not just check Twitter, and why have I gotten so little done in this three hour writing session???

Dreamwidth is the only social media site on which I’m still active, which is good for my peace of mind but perhaps not my writing career. Deck the Halls with Secret Agents didn’t do badly, but I bet it would have done better if I were more active on Bluesky. And Bluesky has not yet started to induce the “that’s an hour of my life I’m never getting back” feeling that I get from Facebook and Twitter, presumably because it’s still showing me posts from people I’m actually following rather than random ads. So I may try to be a bit more active there in 2025.

I do miss being able to watch things at home, but I have sourced a dumb TV from a friend, so once I get a DVD player I’ll be good to go.

Now that I’m getting a new place with a guest bedroom and therefore, presumably, more guests, I am a little concerned how said guests will feel about this internet-less existence, but hopefully being able to watch something on a TV (albeit with choices limited by the available DVDs) will soothe their troubled souls.

At some point the exigencies of modern society may force me to get internet, and that point will probably be when my parents grow too frail for me to call them up and say, “Hey, I’ve been gifted a month-long subscription to National Theater at Home, can I come over to your house to watch Romeo and Juliet in the guest bedroom?” (Or “I have the sniffles, can I work remotely in the guest bedroom rather than going into the office?”) But for now I’m quite happy leaving the internet at work.

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My goal for 2025: I’m going to have a garden! I plan to plant a small herb garden, basil and chives and thyme and rosemary. Also cherry tomatoes and blueberry bushes and raspberry canes, which will probably between them fill my relatively small garden space. Also I’d like to have a compost pile, but I’ll need to do some research first. Because of the aforementioned small size of the garden, it will perforce be near the patio, so I’d like it not to smell too badly, as otherwise it would not be pleasant to sit on the patio gazing out at the pond in the lowering dusk.
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In my New Year’s Resolution post last year, I commented among other things that I had read too much the year before. The total then was 315 books. This year, the number is higher.

Now these numbers are high partly because the list includes about fifty Sherlock Holmes stories, partly because I’ve been reading a lot of children’s books for the Newbery project, and partly because when I worked at the library, I often had hours at the circ desk with nothing much to do but read. And the more I read, the more books there were to read, and the faster I tried to read them, the faster they piled up, until I began to feel like Lucy stuffing chocolates in her mouth as the assembly line sped up and up and up.

This is of course simply one small example of a phenomenon that can occur with movies, music, recipes: things that you do for pleasure somehow come to feel like chores to be gotten through. I don’t think I’m alone in coming to feel this way about my TBR. I am perhaps unusual in that I was in a position to attempt to solve the problem by reading stacks and stacks and stacks of books.

So I am here to say: you cannot solve this problem by reading more. The problem lies in seeing reading (watching movies, listening to music; life) as a to-do list, to be gotten through as efficiently as possible. Hurrying will never make you feel less hurried.

And I was thinking also about how some of my favorite days on my road trips were the times when nothing much happened. The day it poured in New York City, so I stayed in my friend’s apartment and wrote letters and listened to the rain with her sweet cat Bagels (who has since died). The fact that in Boston we made time to go back to the Boston Public Library Reading Room twice, just because it was a nice place to work, and never mind all the Boston sights going begging. (Someday I will visit the Isabella Stweart Gardner Museum, though.) An afternoon on Prince Edward Island when I sat on a bench by a lake and watched the Canada geese gather in great numbers before they rose off the water to head south.

So this year, I want to slow down. Anything worth doing simply takes the time it takes. Take a deep breath, and enjoy the journey.
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Happy 2022! May it prove a happy year for us all.

I’ve been contemplating New Year’s Resolutions, but I haven’t come up with anything that strikes my fancy. In the past I’ve made writing-related resolutions, but mentioning a book in my NYR post seems to doom the poor thing, and anyway it seems a bit silly to make a Resolution to continue doing something I’ve already been doing for years.

My most successful New Year’s Resolution was my resolution in 2018 to watch a movie by a female director each month, which ended in watching over a hundred movies by female directors that year and also diving into nonfiction books about the history of women directors in film and attending my local film festival for the first time… It’s wonderful when a project takes off at that level of intensity.

Does anyone have any New Year’s Resolutions this year? Or memories of New Year’s Resolutions past that worked out extraordinarily well?
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My New Year’s Resolution for 2020 was “try something new each month,” and I am happy to say that I fulfilled it! Although not quite the way my January 2020 self expected, as I intended to try things like “try Ethiopian food” and “visit New York City,” and after February (“paint-your-own pottery”) I was instead doing exciting new things like “experience a global pandemic.”

On a cheerier note, I also tried a lot of new recipes. I’m particularly proud of the progress I’ve made learning to bake yeast bread: not only have I tried a bunch of new recipes (particularly delighted that I can now make myself fresh soft pretzels whenever I want), but I’ve started baking my own bread on the regular. At first this was because it was the only way to get my grocery store visits down to the recommended once every two weeks, but I’ve found that I like having fresh home-baked bread so much that I intend to keep baking it even once we can go to the grocery store with giddy abandon.

(I’ve also found that I like these widely spaced grocery store visits: it makes going to the grocery feel like a treat rather than a chore. Possibly because I always buy myself a treat. But when you’re only going every two-three weeks, that is a perfectly reasonable amount of treats.)

So the resolution didn’t work out quite the way I expected, but nonetheless it worked well, and because my options for fulfilling it were so limited by the exigencies of 2020, I think I’m just going to roll it over for 2021. Maybe I can finally go to an Ethiopian restaurant! Not to mention make good on that trip to New York City… I’ve been faithfully saving my Honeytrap royalties, and I think I have enough for a real blowout trip, and maybe a side jaunt to Massachusetts too.
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In 2019, I didn't think about a New Year’s resolution till the last moment, and decided on “burn more candles,” which… I completely forgot about once warm weather brought an end to candle season (I realize one can burn candles at any time, but generally I think about them more in the winter). Ah well. I think it was the wrong size for a New Year’s Resolution, anyway: not quite big enough.

My not-a-New-Year’s-Resolution which actually ended up acting very much like one was that I decided to start keeping a log of all the books I read, just the title and author. I’ve resisted this for years because I was a little concerned that I’d get competitive with myself (“You’re not reading as many books as you read last year, self!”), and… well, honestly I’m still a little concerned about that… but on the other hand there is something very satisfying about being able to know at a glance everything that I read in July.

And it’s interesting to be able to check at a glance exactly when I read something, which has shown that my memory can distort this quite a lot: sometimes I think I read a book AGES ago and it was actually October, or I think I read it just recently and it was, like, February. How? Why? A puzzle.

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Anyway, this year I put a bit more thought into my New Year’s Resolution, and it is to try something new each month. Possibilities include!

Visit a cat cafe. (One just opened in my city!)
Glow-in-the-dark minigolf.
A visit to a paint-your-own pottery places.
Aerial silks? We’ll see if anyone will go with me. (Part of the beauty of this resolution is that trying new things with your friends can be such a bonding experience.)
Ethiopian food.
Visit New York City. This one is highly contingent on how successful my books are this year.
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Happy New Year! I was hoping to come up with a New Year’s Resolution as good as last year’s resolution to watch at least one movie directed by a woman each month (things got a little out of hand and I watched 106), but nothing has occurred to me. I suppose you can’t expect to have a life-changing project every year.

I have resolved to burn more candles this year. This is a low-key resolution but I think nonetheless a cheerful one.

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Oh! And I wrote a treat for Yuletide. It’s been ages since I’ve done that, but I was reading through the letters and a story just started rolling through my head, so here we are.

The Lady’s Boon (1542 words)
Fandom: The Perilous Gard
Rating: G
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Kate Sutton (I guess Kate Heron at this point), the Lady, Christopher Heron
Summary: When Kate falls very ill, the Lady appears.
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Happy New Year! (Hopefully it will be a happier year all round than 2017!) The sun is glimmering on the snow outside my window, absolutely beautiful - as long as you don't go out in it; it's -5 degrees right now, which is more than cold enough to kill all aesthetic appreciation.

Nonetheless I am planning to sally forth soon to see Lady Bird, and thus kickstart my New Year's Resolution: watch a movie by a female director every month. Please join me in this quest! I am hoping to recruit others to the cause, possibly even to the point of watching the same movie(s) for at least a few months, because it will give us someone to discuss the movies with and possibly even create a few tiny fandoms + ficlets.

A few movies on my list of possibles!

Jenny's Wedding, directed by Mary Agnes Donoghue, which is supposed to be a good movie about lesbians and also is on Netflix instant, which might make it easier for people to watch.

Girlhood, directed by Celine Sciamma. Also on Netflix Instant! A French movie about a teenage black girl in Paris and her friends and... that's all that I know about it. It looks like it might be fun and/or possibly harrowing?

The Breadwinner, directed by Nora Twomey, which was released in November 2017 but may not have even come to theaters in the US yet? BUT it is by the same production company that gave us Song of the Sea so I'm pretty excited for it and keep checking the listings hopefully.

Novitiate, directed by Maggie Betts, which I wanted to see in theaters SO BADLY and then it was there for like THREE DAYS so I ended up missing it, STILL SO MAD. This one is about nuns and I realize that not everyone wants to watch movies about nuns as much as I do, so I may not try to rope everyone else into this one. Also not sure that Netflix will be getting the DVD in any case.

A Wrinkle in Time, directed by Ava DuVernay. I thought that the father character was waaaay too prominent in the early trailers, but the more recent ones have cut back on him and brought Meg to center stage, AS SHE SHOULD BE, which has made me more optimistic. Also, Mindy Kaling is in this one! Coming out in March, in wide release.

Dance, Girl, Dance, directed by Dorothy Arzner, all the way back in 1940, and I cannot be the only person who is curious to see work by a 1940s woman film director. IIRC she was, for a while, the only female Hollywood film director, until Ida Lupino started directing in the late 40s; I'd like to see some of her work too. I watched her The Trouble with Angels a while ago (another film with NUNS), and it was a lot of fun.

Austenland, directed by Jerusha Hess. I really liked the Sharon Hale book that this movie is based on, but I've waffled about watching the movie because I've heard mixed reviews... but this is clearly the year to watch it! I hope it proves delightful.

My Brilliant Career, directed by Gillian Armstrong. A movie about a nineteenth century woman painter! I love women painters just as much as NUNS.

Also possibly some films by Sofia Coppola? I loved The Beguiled and I've seen Marie Antoinette (I'm still not sure how I feel about Marie Antoinette but it was definitely an experience) and I want to see some more.

Thoughts, ideas, news of other female-directed movies that are coming out this year? Desire to jump on this bandwagon? Please jump on the bandwagon. Think of all the movies we can talk about together!
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Normally I don't do New Year's resolutions - not that I have anything against them; I just have nothing to resolve that I haven't already been working on.

But this year, I have two. Because artificially imposed deadlines are good for the soul!

1. Send out stories to magazines. One submission a month, perhaps? (Obviously more is allowed, that's just a minimum.)

2. Finish a novel. The last time I finished a novel was, um. Tenth grade. So much time wasted!

Does anyone else have New Year's resolutions?

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